why don't you get a hold of yourself. i don't [bleep] everything i see. >> we're continuing our discussion about sex, power, politics with psychologist victoria wilson, marriage counselor laura mcdonald, and in los angeles, dr. cadell. craig's here, too. dr. ava, do you believe it's all about risk-taking? i have to tell you that in my experience with general petraeus, and i've known him for almost ten years, we you have two, three, four stars, when i was impressed, he balanced the risk with the reward very carefully. it would seem to me that this was way more reckless than anything i had ever seen him do, dr. ava. >> i agree, but you know, recently i did a survey on cheating for a book that i wrote called understanding cheating, and what i discovered was that most men cheat because they think they can get away with it.